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writes:Hi! I feel in love with a guy this last spring. He broke off with me and I thought he was afraid of commitment. Maybe he was so I wrote him emails without any answers. He finally mad me angry so I told him off! Then I decided to let him have his way and gave him his freedom! This is going to hurt deeply but I hated to see him backed in the corner so I just stepped aside and said your free! Go! Did I do the right thing? How can I deal with this loss? It hurts me greatly! Reply to this Question
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reader, Liza999  +, writes (19 June 2010):
yes, letting him go was the right thing. The way you stated "let him have his way and gave him his freedom" is a bit disturbing and may indicate why he wanted out of this relationship. Did he feel trapped? Were you being too persistent, too interested in your own needs? Find the beauty in your own freedom now.
Healing takes time, know that everything has it's time and place and you will come out of the dark tunnel renewed with a better understanding of how to love more freely!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (19 June 2010):
 I know it hurts. I know your heart is torn open, but you did the right thing. You should beg and pine for no man. He broke it off with you, and rejection is one of the hardest things to bear. However, it won't last forever.
Take comfort in the solace of your friends and loved ones. And remember that you ARE worth a guy falling in love with. You are not deficient just because some guy has issues and emotional baggage. HE's the one that'll have to live with being alone for the rest of his life.
You, on the other hand, are lovable. You will not be alone if you don't want to be. You can fall in love again when you heal. The guy does not deserve you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): If you had really cared I don't know how you let him go, also relationships are supposed to be exclusive mainly so this idea of you holding him Bach an in a corner is one I'm guessing HE put into your head, minipulative!
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