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anonymous
writes:Im 16 years old. Me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up not too long ago. He moved 100 miles away and he doesnt have a way to come see me. He goes through other girls like its his job. We talk on the phone all the time, he says he still loves me and always will. He also tells me he dates these other girls to make me jealous. I dont know what to do, all my friends tell me to stop waisting my time with him. I dont know what to do, i still love hi with everything i have. But he has hurt me in the past, Maybe he has changed? Im just so confised. We want to keep talking and keep loving each other but we dont want to date untill he moves back or when i turn 18 so i can move with him. What should i do, should i wait for him or just move on?
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reader, Spades  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Listen to your friends. They have already given you the best advice. In my opinion, long-distance relationships generally don't work out. That and I wouldn't waste my time with this guy. If he loved you, he wouldn't be trying to make you jelous.
Two years is a long time to wait. In that time you could meet someone amazing, but you'd be holding out for your boyfriend 100 miles away, who, from what you've written, goes through a lot of girls...I'm sure you can do that math.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (18 June 2010):
 UGHHHHH.... ok do this tell him to stop saying he loves.... because he doesnt... having an attachment to some one and love are too different things.....
both are you are to young to even be considering moving in togather and all this stuff..... at best i would say be freinds with this guy and thats it.... he wont change an you cant change him... but also why is he the one who needs to change maybe its you...
if everyone is telling you the same thing its probably wise to listen so yea let this guy go if he truly loves you hell find you when its time.....
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