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writes:We dated for a year then asked her to marry me . she said no but said i could move in to her house. lived with her for 3 years .then she told me to move out because i am not the one . she gave me a month but i moved out to a friend right away. she is 35 i am 38 .i still want to be with her. she has not told her parent that i have been living there for 3 years and not told some of her coworkers either. that hurt me alot why does she hide me from these people . she said that she is not happy and she want me to find someone that loves me as much as i love her. i dont think there is someone else but she does have some guy friend call sometimes . 4 years dont you think she would know that see doesnt want me too be with her for ever. i loved her alot gave her everthing she wanted. tried the no contact she called me to thank me for something i did and asked me were i am staying and asked if i told my parents and if they hate her . she worries too much about what other people think . just like she never told people about me she is worried what they will think. she never wanted intercourse all we ever did is oral sex she was afraid of sex but i loved her so i didnt push this on here, a litte at the beginng thats all. told her to go to doctors to tell them she never did .maybe she just didnt want to do it with me i am no angel either but i was alway honest with her .. i know she has a lot of problem but she has been in my life for a long time. will she ever come back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): Hey,
You have to hang in there. I know you are probably in a horrible spot right now, and feel like you have a gigantic hole in your heart that can never be filled by anybody but her.
But the truth is that any girl can fill your heart. It's going to take a long time to get over this girl, but you have to. She just strung you along for four years, which is horrible, but she doesn't want you.You gave her a chance and she shot your down.
Even if she does come rushing back, don't let her into your life again. Do you really want to be strung along like that for another couple years? You deserve better.
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