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writes:my boyfriend is in a band and is on tour right now.on his facebook he made a status "young, thin jennifer love hewwit". this makes me jealous and unsure why he would he would do this. i dont mind him thinking celebrities are hot and all but for him to make a point and make a status about it? he is as insecure as i am and i wouldnt ever make a status like that knowing he would see it. why would he do something like that?
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reader, princess166 +, writes (19 June 2010):
princess166 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionturns out they were watching the movie cant hardly wait on the bus while on the way to the next city. he plays the drums. he told me he wouldnt cheat even if he was tempted because he likes me too much.
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reader, Ziggywp +, writes (18 June 2010):
I'm not trying to think of a negative scenario. But it might be that he met a girl while on tour thats interested in him and that is so damn hot and reminds him of a "young thin Jennifer Love Hewwit". Sometimes guys like to express their pride in something in suttle ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): One year...Ah, that's still new. He's a rock star. You see him on stage and he's beautiful. He's almost god-like, right? There's nothing more exhilarating than knowing this "god" people are grooving to and worshiping is coming home with you. His talent is a total turn on and the sex is great. Correct me if I am wrong.Now, this is where it gets bad. The problem is, he is adored and the fact that he puts himself on display opens the door for a lot of women (or even men, not saying your guy is into that but it happens) to feel the desire to worship him also.Musicians have 2 lives. They have the road life and their home life. If you can get past the possibilities of what might transpire on the road, then I say continue. But, this fb status is an indicator that you aren't ready for the other women.He could be saying that he thinks "young, skinny JLH" is hot. Or he could be saying, the last groupie that worshiped him looked like a "young, skinny jlh." I wish I could say that it was okay to give him the benefit of the doubt. I wish I could say that he is one of those rare musicians that would NEVER take advantage of life on the road. I'm just saying, from experience, for the sake of your heart, keep your eyes open and really think about the possibility of being with a man that lives a dual existence.You know your guy way more than I do. In the end, the answers lay between the two of you.How often is he on tour? What kind of music does he play (genre/instrument)?
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reader, princess166 +, writes (18 June 2010):
princess166 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for the answers i appreciate it xx\
we have been together for nearly a year diosa
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): dont worry hun, lots of people like celebrities. do you like any celebrities yourself ? maybe you could get revenge and put a status saying how much you like a certain celebrity ?. remember though, your boyfriend is with you, not jennifer love hewitt, and he will never have a chance to be with her. you dont have any reason to feel insecure hun because its not like he can cheat on you with her is it ?. on the other hand, you could talk to him about it and tell him how upset he made you feel. please let us know what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): Lord..musicians. Honey, run while you still can. I was married to a musician for ten years. Worst relationship ever.
If this status update is getting to you, I fear for the dark journey your heart will take when other issues start arising.
I do not like to speculate, but how long have you guys been seeing each other?
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