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anonymous
writes:I'm in love with my brothers friend, and I really don't know what to do.. I'm not sure about what he feels and thinks of me, and I need help..I've known this guy since I was a little girl.. We used to be very good friends when we were little kids. We were always together, you can say that we were like best friends.. Since then, I've had this crush on him, about 8 years now I think.. At the time, he started spending more time with my older brother, you know, they were hanging out with girls, started to have girlfriends and like that. I was just the little sister now, sitting in the kitchen watching out of the window where they were hanging out.. I was so unhappy at the time, I remember it so clearly.. The years have passed by, and now we are not kids anymore.. I've always had this special thing with him, when I see him, my heart actually MELT.. It's amazing how he makes me feel..Everytime he sees me, he smiles just as much as I do. My friend tells me, that he's totally always checking me out..A couple of months ago, I lived at my bigbrothers place. a couple of days before I went there, I met him and he walked right over to me, and started talking. He smiled so big, and he was so sweet, and flirting me. It was kinda akward, but daaaamn he made me crazy.. When I came to my brothers place, that day he came by. We hang out, and he flirted totally with me. But it was discreet, because my brother was there. He always looks at me, and when he talks with me his smile is way bigger than normal. He glows..He also ask me for advice and help with stuff, he touches me by accident.. He always look and smeels good when I am around. He came every evening, slept there, and came the next again. We went to the cinema, him me my brother and some of their friends. When we were driving in the car, we sat next to eachother and I could feel him looking at me in the mirror opfront if you know what i mean.He looked all the time. We had eyecontact many times, and sometimes its like we cant stop lookin at eachother..There was that one night, I was in the bedroom and he was in the livingroom. The door between us were open, so he could look at me.. and he did, while i was talking on the phone with a girl friend of mine. he seemed so interested in our conversation, and he almost stared at me. but then my brother came in and saw us looking, it was so akward :)))We don't have eachothers phone numbers, but we write on MSN.. he has been writing to me much the last couple of days, he had just bought a new computer, and he writes almost everytime we are both online.. I dont know what to do, I dont wanna make a fool outta myself. Because, eventhough he shows me so many signs that he likes me, even my friends say it. they keep telling me that I am stupid that I can't see it though...He knows that I think he is lovely.. and he keeps writing and flirting. It's just that he is my brothers friend, and I am so scared. but, he is more than just being plied and friendly. he flirts with me, blushes, he's so happy when we talk... I know he wants to hang out with me, and I'm pretty sure that he likes me.. But its not enough for me, I need to know what exactly YOU think. So please help me?I don't know if I have given you such a big information about it, but of what I've told, what do you think?- What do you think he wants???- What shall I do???- Does he like me???PLEASE HELP :) It's been 8 years!! Thank you very much :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWeeeeee! :D its good to hear it for someone I dont know.. Thanks for you answer. but, it really isn't that easy.. because I don't know what my brother would think about it. If you know what I mean.. I am his little sister, if he had to decide I should be lesbian or forever-single :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): Ask him on a date :)!
its obvious he likes you. he's always wanting to be around you, he smiles at you, he sends the same signals as you do. so go for it. and if you feel nervous about it, maybe you should ask him how he feels about you. just ask him, randomly. you may be nervous at first, and it'll feel like your heart it racing... but you'll happy when you do ask him. than he'll know that your interested in him. take the risk, it may be completely worth it in the end. and i suggest you ask for his number. taking the initiative on things between you two may have him wanting you even more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry for my mistakes in my writing, I write so fast and I didn't read it after.. :-)
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