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writes:Do any of you have the fantasy of watching your wife or girlfriend get picked up in a bar by another man, and then watching them do stuff short, but close to, sex? Have any of you indulged this fantasy?For some reason the thought of this really turns me on. My wife and I have bantered about the idea for a while, leading to some hot sex. She says it's not her fantasy, but she would do it if I really want her to. I am excited to try it. The thought of another man groping her, maybe fingering her, or her even giving him head in a dark corner of a club is VERY exciting to me.My one concern is if she likes it too much. She used to be very promiscuous before she met me. Do you think encouraging her to do this might be like flicking on a light switch, and she will revert to her old ways and want to do this even not at my bidding? Have any of you tried this? What were the results?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): I also have this fantasy. We used to discuss it as she liked to dress to get attention but she is less interested now but is more horny than ever. Whenever she does get attention she wants to get laid hard and often.
She has come close but I have concluded she willnot do it so I have o abondon the idea. You have to be careful it doesnt take you opver.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): I was the girlfriend once playing this game, it was a game of fire and sure it was hot but you could get your fingers burnt, be prepared to possibly loose in some way could you risk that? however on the other side maybe you wish to face jealousy and transform the emotion into a positive one with your partner, but be prepared for different emotions and keep a grip of reality and above all play fair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): You are asking for trouble. I had a friend who had the fantasy of watching his wife have sex with another man fulfilled. His wife was my wife's friend. She told my wife that her husband wasn't getting the job done and his friend was. He finally figured that out to but it was too late. She left him for the guy he brought home. Some fantasy's should just remain fantasys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): Engaging in this fantasy is, in effect, giving someone the go-ahead to cheat. You're saying you're OK with it now, but what happens when you're not actually OK with it when it's happening, or if she decides she'll do it without an audience (you)?
Although it might sound like fun, many times people who've engaged in these behaviors have become jealous and emotionally hurt by living out this fantasy.
Do it at your own risk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): I've never understood this kind of fantasy what so ever. You're obviously not a very jealous person.
I think it will definitely lead her wanting to do it more and more, as she knows she's 'allowed', and it's okay with you.
You're just influencing her to cheat basically. Oh, but that's what you want..?
Sorry, I just can't understand why anybody would like/want such a thing.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Be carefull what you wish for my friend, you could end up all alone.
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