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writes:I am a female of 24 years.. been single for a while now, and just recently started dating again, i met this guy who's 5 years younger than me, we are not of the same race, which i dont see as a problem. I'm really starting to like him after 2 months now, we've been on a date once, but been out with mutual friends on some occasions. His away at campus and I've heard by his friend that he's really into me, and wouldnt mind making us official, but im not sure if his the right guy i want to be with, his been calling and sending me text messages, which is all good, im on facebook with him, and seen some funny comments on his wall, about roaming campus early hours of the morning, and I'm thinkin what the hell!!!! He comes accross as this loyal, reliable, honest, guy but yet i read stuff like that. I'm not sure what to do, on the other hand im also into this other guy who says he wants to be with me, but doesn't want a relationship with me.I'm not sure what to do at this point, its like I'm caught up with these two guys. the one who doesnt want a relationship with me, i care for deeply, we've been friends for a very long time, but the one thats on campus, is still fresh, but i do like him, not sure if he is just playing with me or not!! what to do????
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): The younger man sounds immature based on what you've said here; he's only 19, right? The fact is, you two are probably at totally different places in your lives. Working out that particular relationship would be difficult.
This other guy who wants to be with you, but doesn't want to be in a relationship with you doesn't sound good, either. Basically, he's saying he wants to use you for what he wants, without any emotional attachment. He wants everything for free.
My advice to you is to find a guy who you don't get red flags from when you start hanging out.
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