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I wonder why he's not interested after having sex with me?

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Question - (30 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2010)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I was really confused , I meet a guy in dating site its kinda adulthsite for casual sex. This guy is interested to get to know me persona, we share a lot of things through chatting ,I know his past relation were share things over the internet and he knows that I'm using the site for killing time one day we decided to meet he is so gentleman we talked about our and his family After that day he never send me messages and just becaused I can feel that we hAve connection I send him text messages and call his mobile. And suddenly never hear anything for me. One day he asked me what I want and I said to trsvel cos that time I was confused to travel didnt realized that question is refering casual relation.He is especial to me I do like him and he always give me good compliment and I wonder why why he never say something to me that he wants me.I thought he wants a realtionship which is not and i was so upset,Just because I'm attracted to him physical I asked him for sex a one night stand and he never want it instead give me a good compliment that I'm a good person, I can be a sensual lover , I have a great body and very atractive, till i asked him how will you know if he never tried me . Then he came and we have fun , I can feel that were attracted and I wonder why his not interested with since after having sex he is still saying nice words on me and I wonder why

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010):

I guess I know the answer and I'm proud of myself i'm a well educated woman and my family was really closed in short were family oriented. I always look after with myself physical and mental I'm health I cam say I had a nice body I'm not that ugly I always had a choice till now . It's good to know that some people appriciate who you are . I always keep my respect and dignity always put my guard on with me and I won't allow anyone to put me down . I'm a bit taught indont like people seeing me as sex object . I'm woman willing to give up eveything as long as you will live me for who I am and not for what I have. I can say I'm unique cos I never enter to world of fun or lust . I migth do that cos I keep wonndering why is that an what went wrong. I can say I'm a lucky person cos I had all the love and support of family and friends . I don't need a guy who will pretend to be nice and say something better just toake me feel alright I don't think it's a good idea . I know some how somewhere a long the way is waiting for me and I deserve someone better like him. I wish him well and all the best in everything he do.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntPosibly he decided that a more reasonble way to find a lifelong partner was to meet them in person first. I'm sure you are the bomb but he may not have felt arroused.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010):

He is not interested. Don't waste your time. You met, he was polite and decided he wasn't interested. So, move on and find someone who likes you.

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