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Help, I'm so confused about my sexuality...

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Question - (30 July 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *sc2246 writes:

I've always liked girls but the last three years or so I've had nuthin but bad luck with them.... I was telling one of my brother's gay friends about my problems and he said that I might be gay or bi........ so i did soem work and im not sure and need help. I masturbate to gay porn a lot more than to porn with girls. Girl on girl doesent get me even hard but i like guy on guy.... I really want my first gay kiss so i can decide once and for all if i like both or only girls or only boys..... so if there is anyone out there that can give me some advice please will you answer this question please.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010):

If you are watching gay porn and getting off on it then you are not straight. You are still growing so do not worry so much about what you are.

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A male reader, Asc2246 United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

Asc2246 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank u to all that sent in answers it has helped....il try all advise....i feel a little more sicure in my sexuality.....thanks.

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A female reader, wee_neko United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

It sounds like someone threw a bunch of information at you that confused the crap out of you.

You can make your own decision on what your sexuality is when the time comes.

Some questions you may want to ask yourself: do you find classmates/male peers attractive? Do you think you could realistically see yourself in a romantic (not EROTIC, ROMANTIC)relationship with someone of the same sex?

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A male reader, model101_t800 United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

model101_t800 agony auntDr Ski, you are right on. I couldn't agree more with you.

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A female reader, Dr.Ski United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2010):

The trouble with young people these days, is that your mind's are like sponges. whatever you hear, absorbs into it, and you believe it. So, you have been having bad luck with girl's.. is it your looks? your personality? It is NORMAL for you to get stimulated over gay porn, even if you are a boy, its normal. But dont think that you are gay because of it, but also, dont be ashamed if you are gay, and the only way too tell if you are gay is, look at some boys, and if you can say in your head that they are good looking and you have sexual desires for them, then you are gay or bi. :) x

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