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writes:I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me flowers so we got back together. Apparently she was never pregnant. He vowed to never be with her again and i wanted to believe him. It was hard for me to trust him though, and i would look in his phone. Id always see her number pop up at times when id be off to work. I confronted him and he said she calls a lot. So i asked him to change his number and he did. Months go by and im now ready for more in our relationship, he pushes me away telling me i deserve better so finally we break up. 2wks later he comes around and i find her number in his new phone. I was pissed. Id been faithful the whole time as I explained to my 1st love who I ran into days later. We ended up having oral sex. I go to my OB for my annual 4days later and I have a STD. Who gave it to me? Was it my potentially cheating ex or my 1st love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): What kind of question is that? How are we supposed to know who gave you an STD? Thank your stars that it's a STD and not HIV.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Tell them both to get checked and be more careful next time.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Whichever one of them has the STD (or is a carrier) gave it to you. If you really want to fix responsibility both these guys will have to get tested.
There is NO way anybody else can possibly give you the answer to that question.
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