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30-35,
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writes: I ended a relaionship with an ex. And he hated me right after. Im not really sure why, there was never a reason. i was good to him. We never fought until the last day we broke up. he hates my guys now and is constantly talking bad about me. Idk why though. Like I dont udnerstand where any of this is coming from. He'll contact me just being mean and trying to start fights with me. Is there a reason behind this? He's sixteen years old.. so is it just hes immature or what?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 July 2010):
When you ended it, you hurt him. You were right to end it if you felt it was going nowhere, but clearly he didn't see it coming and he was hurt. To be fair, he is still immature about this, and his reactions do show that. To be contacting you just to be mean shows how immature he is. There are a lot of hurt ex's who compose themselves and move on. When he contacts you, end it. Don't listen, don't reply, don't do anything. Just put the phone down.
You have to accept that when you end a relationship, you hurt someone. But you don't have to take this treatment. Leave him to be immature, while you just move on with life.
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