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writes:I really enjoy oral sex, both giving and receiving it. The only person I've ever done this with is my current boyfriend. Not too long ago, we were joking around about oral sex (I'm not going to go into needless details) but I joked that I would come over to give him a blow job if he ate me out. (Excuse the phrasing). He then said that the last time he did that, he had nearly gotten sick. I dont think he realized the impact of that on me. It really upset me and still does. I mean, what would have made him get sick? I am clean, so it's not like I go days without washing myself. I'm just not sure how to take it, and why he almost threw up. I dont want to ask him, because then he'll realize how upset I am, and it may start a fight because I may be taking it the wrong way. But, if anyone out there has advice as to what would make him sick when he goes down on me, that'd be great. Advice as to asking him may be needed too. thanks
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reader, fishdish +, writes (31 July 2010):
 oh gosh.sounds like a horribly insensitive joke gone bad. i do think you should bring it up, just be like were you serious that i made you sick? and if he says haha no or some horribleness, chew him out a little for that because, i read this somewhere, it may have even been on this website: men are rarely emotionally vulnerable when they're using their penises, because they're doing the penetrating; conversely, women have to open ourselves up to being penetrated, and it is an emotional and physical thing we're doing when we're opening ourselves like that--we are putting our trust in the person we are with, we are vulnerable to their you know, ravaging ;) SO the point is, you're doing HIM a favor giving your body to him so he should be a little more grateful that you feel he's earned your trust to this degree. IT CAN ALL BE TAKEN AWAY THOUGH BY NASTY COMMENTS LIKE THESE! you can edit the feminism in either direction, if necessary :) but do communicate about it because i'd be upset too! stand up for your self and all ladies otherwise he'll say something else about your vomitrocious lady parts and that simply won't do!
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