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writes:My fiance and I have been together for 2 yrs, and 7 months. And, We keep arguing, like, coming back to the same argument, over and over again. He expects me to change my whole personality for him. Because, I am a quiet person, but he wants me to be more talkative. I do that. Than the next day, he wants me to be more talkative with his parents, which I did. It's like, he's asking too much of me. Whenever I talk to him, he constantly cuts me off, and gives me some smart ass answer, like he thinks he's better than me. I admit, he is smart, but I don't think he needs to do that to me.He has a son that's 3 years old. And, I'm not sure what it is. But I cannot accept his son. Maybe It's because I'm 19? Maybe it's because I feel his son took away my chance of having a baby with him now? (because I ask, and he says not until I'm like, 28. And it hurts me inside, because he calls me stupid and dumb for wanting a baby) Whatever the reason, he has a problem with the way I act towards his son. I'm not mean to him or anything, I just, choose not to interact much with him.I'm not sure anymore. I feel like he's just a excellent roomate. help?
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (30 July 2010):
 You need to go on ahead and bow out of this relationship. he's a complete jerk. If you think that the resentment of his son will change then you're fooling yourself and yes it is because you're 19 i'm sorry to say. You feel like you should be the one to have his children but he already has a child and you can't get that out of your mind. Plus it sounds like he dosen't want any more kids anyways so you'll probably get more resentful about that too.
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