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*encybaby18
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months and im super in love with him , lately since its summer we barly see each other and weve been fightin so this weekend on fri he went to go eat with this friends and my bestfriend called me on sat that he shared a kiss with his bestfriend (who i was extremly close with).So saturday i confronted him with it he denyed it , and i belived it sunday as well . Then on sun night well mon morning my bestfriend called me agian , with the kissing boyfriend problem and she tells me to lie to the girl he kissed that he confessed and me trying to prove her wrong Got a serious wake up call. He did kiss her when i called him i broke up with him he called me and me was telling me " babe i love you i never wanna loose yu its the bigest regret of my life , weve been fightin and i just fucked up and ill never do it agian i really dont wanna loose you " while cryin tellin me much more , after a whil i just took him back. i feel like i lost conplete trust and feel he should be sweetr
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 August 2010):
 Trust me honey, he is not the only guy out there.
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reader, lencybaby18 +, writes (31 July 2010):
lencybaby18 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks i really wanna end it deep down & i really do love him alot but when i start to brake up or imply why we should , i cant i cant imgaion being with out him .. I really need help on what to do . :(
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 July 2010):
What about next time you guys fight? He might not stop at kissing... And the fight after that.. and after that?
What he is saying is it's YOUR fault he made this mistake because the two of you fought. He will NOT own his actions now nor in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): What do you do? Isn't it obvious? Pack up and move on. Why even RISK getting your heart shat upon again? Cheating is a sure sign that a) the person does not love you the way he loves himself, and b) that they have a whole lot of issues they need to work through before they can ever commit to a healthy normal relationship. Consider this a bullet dodged and move ON.
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reader, Charl123  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Ive had the same thing done to me. And I took them back also, aaaand...I got hurt again. Im hate to say this but if he can do it in the highlight and fresh part of your relationship then what do you think he'll do if you ever have an argument etc? Guaranteed you will use this against him for the rest of your relationship aswel, as YOUR ammo. And trust me, that wont help anything. You have to decide whether your either going to risk having your heart torn into a thousand pieces and 5 months of trauma trying to get over the ass. OR risk that everyone makes mistakes and maybe hes young minded and just got a bit of cold feet at commitment. Ive had this happen to friends before, they got back with them, and so far theyv NOT done it again. All you can do it follow your heart, and honestly believe that everything DOES happen for a reason. it'll make you stronger and u'll learn something no matter which path you choose.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 July 2010):
You've been going out for 10 months, and the first time you're apart a bit and have an argument and he cheats with his best friend who was also your friend. That's a terrible sign of things to come. I think you can do better, rather than sitting there with this guy who is a cheat and still isn't doing much to make up for it.
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