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writes:Lol i forgot to mention that I am not a female age 20-22 I am a male 36yr old. This is my sisters page.Ok here goes. This girl that i likeand myself recently (about 9days)got into a verbal spat and tokinda let it die i havent contact hersince.Yesterday i find out that she wentto a rock concert with a guy. Whenshe came back from the concertshe told her friend (who is a guy2000 miles away) about it and hisresponse was "oh no dont tell mehe convinced you that he isntsketchy" and her response was alaughing "haha no I am so proud ofmyself, you would of applaudedme."So my guess is that she didnt wantto go alone and went withsomeone who one considers"sketchy" probably to not lookavailable. My sister does that toowhen she cant find a girl friend toaccompany her and cant bebothered with guys approachingher.Now what concerns me is, throughmy experience, Ive noticed thatsometimes if a guy insults anotherguy, she might just think the otherguy is jealous and in turn will thinkthe guy is not so bad after all andmight continue to date him.But this was in my time when i wasin my dating 20s roughly 15 yearsago. I am recently divorced so yes,Im kinda out of the dating game.Anyone can tell me if I shouldleave her alone for the time beingand let her enjoy her good timelast night, or should i not wait andstart getting in contact with her tokinda rekindle things and steer hermind off this guy.She doesnt know that I knowabout this date fortunatelybecause her twitter is not private.So i know i have to play it off like iknow nothing.Any good advice out there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): You don't mention that you're dating exclusively, just that you like her, so she had every right to go to a rock concert with any guy she wants to go with.
You're really overly jealous for the situation, particularly if you know that your sister does similar things. Take a deep breath, collect yourself and focus on working out the issue that caused the verbal spat with your lady friend. You don't even need to talk about her concert-going experience.
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