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writes:My gf is pregnant. Her and I are 14. I'm thinking about telling my family and hers but I dont know how. A bit ago we had unprotected sex. And I'm waiting to know if she is pregnant or not. What should I tell my parents??? Please help
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 It's not your place to tell HER parents at all. In fact, it would be rude of you to do. You can tell your own parents but I advise you wait and be sure she's pregnant first. People do the dumbest things when they're nervous so try to keep your mind cool. Especially for her because her life is going to change tremendously. Do know that pregnancytests don't work alright in the first 3 weeks, wait for so long and then try one. From then on, the tests work best. It's plenty of time to start cooling down and figure out everything. Be SMART or you'll be worse of than you want to be. Telling your parents might be a bad move before you are sure plus it could be extra embaressing on your girlfriend, it all depends on what kind of parents you have. I wish you good luck but take good care of the choices you make now because they will define you as a man for the rest of your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): Don't tell them until you're certain your girlfriend is pregnant. If she isn't, you would've caused a situation that wasn't necessary.
Let these terrifying, uncertain moments be a lesson to you in the future. If you can't handle the repercussions of sex, you shouldn't be having sex, especially unprotected sex.
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