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writes:I just want to be prepared for when this event happens, and I know it will pretty soon. Soo now I'm a senior, and we all know that's a great accomplishment and all. So anyways I was thinking of going to my prom with someone outside of my school. I'm not sure if he'll say yes or no if I ask him. But I've never asked a guy out to the prom before. So what do I tell him? How do I ask? And if he says no, how am I suppose to take it? And if he says yes...what do I say next? Say you were the guy in this situation...you'd have to spend all this money just to spend practically the whole night with me. One of the most important and most reminised days of a teenager's life. Would you be willing to spend all of that money? Would you be comfotable around my friends whom you've never met, but heard of before? I've met his friends before and they're cool and laid back. While my friends are loud,crazy yet cool. Would that be a bad chemistry in the limo? And the prom would be in June..would telling him a month in advance be good timing? Another thing, I don't want to be on his case always asking him..oh did you get your tux yet?, what about your hair? Like, I don't want to nag about it. And I'm sure he didn't go to his H.S prom, so I think it would kind of be special for us. We've never really went out together just to hang out. Or what if he doesn't have fun? I don't know its just I want him to have fun too. Soo what do you guys think? Should I grow some balls and ask or just go with someone from my school?
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reader, freetolove_orcas +, writes (30 July 2010):
Thats funny, for my prom, my boyrfiend is the quiet type but my friends aren't lol. he was nervous (cuz it was our very first date) but my friends kind of got him out of his quiet shell. I honestly think you should go for it because if you dont ask, you might be questioning yourself of whether he would've gone with you or not. As for nagging, i wouldn't. but its your choice. i mean my boyfriend took me with him to find a tux for him. but anyways ask him and good luck. i hope you have a great prom. :) (i wish i was of more help though)
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reader, freetolove_orcas +, writes (30 July 2010):
Thats funny, for my prom, my boyrfiend is the quiet type but my friends aren't lol. he was nervous (cuz it was our very first date) but my friends kind of got him out of his quiet shell. I honestly think you should go for it because if you dont ask, you might be questioning yourself of whether he would've gone with you or not. As for nagging, i wouldn't. but its your choice. i mean my boyfriend took me with him to find a tux for him. but anyways ask him and good luck. i hope you have a great prom. :) (i wish i was of more help though)
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