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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i broke up about four months ago and i was really upset he was my first boyfriend and not to mention my first love. He said he was moving away and ended up not moving which was the reason for the break up and he also didn't know what he wanted that seems to be our biggest problem i put my heart and soul into making it work and it seems like he doesn't even care. we had gotten back together for a short after he found out he wasn't moving and then a few weeks later he fell off the earth didn't talk to me for a week and when i finally got a hold of him he told that he can't be in this big relationship and he can't handle it and told me that we cant work things out right now. So after a week or two of not contacting him he texted me and acted like everything was fine and i can't stand it because i love him so much but am not that strong yet to let go. He texts me everyday or almost everyday now wanting to know what im doing or who im with and asked if i was dating anyone and said he didn't care i was to date someone else and when i asked why he keeps texting me he said that he likes to talk to me. Is there any hope for me? we were together for two years i dont know how he could just walk away i have been struggling to move on but love him with all my heart. Any answers or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): I've been there twice before. its not easy, but sweetie, hes not coming back. Hes one of those guys that likes to keep girls hanging on to him for a while.
Heres what you gotta do, I know its hard, but it helped me a lot when I was going through that.
You need need need to cut off contact with him, talking all the time is just going to hurt you more and make it harder to move on.
then you gotta have a few girls nights, invite some (single) friends over and watch movies or go out, whatever, just have fun.
trust me, this is your first boyfriend and your first love. they'll be others.
you gotta let him go, if he can drop you that fast, then hes totally not worth your time.
good luck with everything.
things get better :)
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