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female
age
30-35,
*mandanash
writes:I know i shouldnt care about my ex, and that i should let him go out of my life, except i caved in a asked him to clear up a rumour i heard. I heard that he's dating a new girl and i messaged him and asked if it was true or not and told him if it is, he moves on fast as we only broke up 3 weeks ago. was it a mistake to do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): firstly, take it easy.
secondly, if you broke up and didn't make any promises to be friends or get back together or anything, he is no longer under your control so you really shouldn't ask if he's dating anyone new or judge that he moves on fast. there's nothing wrong with dating, some people do that merely days after a break up. it doesn't necessarily have feelings in it. so cool off and next time, don't ask. i wont say it's a mistake but whether it is or not, it's done. i think the best thing for you to do is just to cut off contact with him unless you're comfortable with being JUST friends.
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