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writes:Okay. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and his parents still hate me. :( I'm 15 and so is he.. and we are both virgins. We want to have sex, but there isnt a time and place for it. We never get to spend time together outside of school and church, so i don't know what I should do! I wish his parents liked me so I could go over to his house, and he could come to mine. I just hate that we don't get any freedom. This is rediculous. Help?
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reader, Logicgirl  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Hehehe. Virgin you say? 15 you say? You want to have sex you say? You see, youre at that age thinking of having SEX?! I'm sure you love eachoter but isnt it a little bit early? And why does his parents hates you clearify me. And church you say, isnt sex without marriage a sin? I am definitely not trying to cricitize you but think! You are fifteen and you're trying to have sex. Now that is ridicilous. What will you gain from losing your virginity? I know that may you want to be loved physically. And you may hear from your friends how great having sex is. But think about your future. You want to have sex, you had sex with your bf. Then? Tomorrow or a week later, he may get attracted to another girl. Wont you feel any guilt then. And after you will find the love of your life, wont you think that 'I wish this man was my first.'. Look, I dont oppose your relationship but, dont take it too far at this young age. Think about this throughly. I know that I didnt gave you what you wanted but think! Love eachother how you should at your age. Like I said I dont feel a grudge against you and I've been trough a lot of hardships too. I want to be physically and mentally loved too and more than that, I have no one to love but I think waiting for the right time is the best. Make your choices carefully and be happy with your bf. Im sorry if I'm not a help. But you can imagine what kind of person who I am from my nickname :)
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