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writes:See, there's this guy. I'm in love with him, but nobody understands it, not even myself, actually. Some say I'm too young to fall in love, I just find guys beautiful, but for the first time on my small life I can say I'm in love... I never thought this would happen but for the first time I'm on deep depression because of this guy, but that's also one thing nobody knows, because I can actually hide it very well. He is several years older than me, but that's not what makes him totally unreacheble for me... The problem is... Three years before I was born... he died. And I'm far from necrophilia before you guys say sumthing I like him alive !So what do I do? Should I just forget him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): How do you love him if you've never met him? You say you like him alive, but you never met him while he was living. You should just forget him, because it's not possible for you to be in a relationship with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): That's so sad! I think you have to forget about this guy, since you never actually met him and he's, well, he's no longer a physical being. If you want a relationship with a guy who can actually actively participate in a relationship, that is.
You can look for a live guy with similar qualities! At least you know what you like, right? And dating is hard enough as it is; just take your time and I'm sure someone new will catch your eye eventually! Even if it takes until college.
Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): That's so sad! I think you have to forget about this guy, since you never actually met him and he's, well, he's no longer a physical being. If you want a relationship with a guy who can actually actively participate in a relationship, that is.
You can look for a live guy with similar qualities! At least you know what you like, right? And dating is hard enough as it is; just take your time and I'm sure someone new will catch your eye eventually! Even if it takes until college.
Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): hi. are you talking about a famous person here ?. or is it someone that your family or someone else you know knew personally or something and you have just seen photos or something ?.
i've fancied celebrities that died before i was born. it's natural to like people who have already died, dont worry !.
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Love cannot happen without meeting people. There has to be a connection between the two people. What you're feeling is just infatuation. Just forget about him and move on with your life.
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