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writes:Is it any wonder that im angry with my family? ok heres my problem. i have a host of 'supposed problems' - including ADHD. well i have two sisters Maira and Sarah, both of them fight like cat and dog and mum often favors Sarah. Sarahs had everything - a house, a car out of mum and dad for uni and what do me and Maria get - sweet fa. its always like being in a warzone and i dont trust any of them now. I was sexually abused by my uncle and i got ill and went into hospital and Sarah and mum where basically tring to get me to move out the house - i have never been so upset and like Sarah pries into other peoples life but cuts me and my other sister out - i didnt even know she's been in a relationship - i dont feel valued by my family! How can I sort this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): You said that your mom and Sarah excludes you and Maira from everything. You should try to stick close to Maira because she obviously knows what you're going through. I think it's horrible that you were violated by family and it was extremely wrong of your mother and sister to try and get you out of the house.Do you know this for sure or are you just reading between the lines? Do you have other family that you could talk to? And if you're old enough, you should move out. Get a job and a home and be independent(but don't forget about Maira). Your family is being rude and careless, cut them off until they realize what a fool they have been acting like. I have been through a lot of family problems, my sister who was my best friend became involved with drugs and alcohol. She ruined our relationship and family. I hated her for so long but just know that hate doesn't change anyone. Be the better and bigger person; walk about from the hate. I wish I had another sibling, like you do, to get me through my hard times. Please, remember Maira and stay close to her so that she never feels the way you do. I hope this helps and your future will get brighter because God will always be there. I really hope this has helped.
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