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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey all,i'm a 19 year old gay female living in the uk. currently have a gf who i've been with a few months. we are in a long distance relationship and although its sometimes hard being apart, its a great relationship for the most part. we have a good sex life and when i do see her it's awesome. however, theres one problem which is really beginning to rile me..its not really her fault but i cant help being overly jealous for stupid reasons. like, even if we're texting and she tells me shes going out tonight it makes me feel mad and it's ridiculous, i know it is. it's not even that i dont trust her- but before we were together, she told me she used to be in love with one of her close friends, who she still sees often now. i dont have a problem with her seeing her friend, after all her friend knows me and her are together and her mate also has a boyfriend! but it just makes me feel so paranoid, even if she texts her. i feel like my gf might have stronger feelings for her than me. i haven't told my gf about my jealousy issues as i suspect this might push us apart, but i cant stand feeling like this anymore. i know part of the problem stems from the fact ive been let down, had my trust broken by many people i care about in the past. so really maybe i'm just insecure, it's not like i don't even have my own friends to meet up with so that's not the problem.i really love her to pieces but i know if i don't sort myself out it's guna end up tearing us apart! please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): That's very true it will tear you apart. That happened with me and my ex girlfriend, hence the ex part! Please don't make the same mistake as I have and talk to her about it and show her how much her and how lucky she is to have you. I know its hard not to be jealous but if she's worth it, try. I live every moment of everyday regretting letting my girlfriend go, please don't do the same over something that really is so silly
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