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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok here goes. This girl that i like and myself recently (about 9 days)got into a verbal spat and to kinda let it die i havent contact her since. Yesterday i find out that she went to a rock concert with a guy. When she came back from the concert she told her friend (who is a guy 2000 miles away) about it and his response was "oh no dont tell me he convinced you that he isnt sketchy" and her response was a laughing "haha no I am so proud of myself, you would of applauded me."So my guess is that she didnt want to go alone and went with someone who one considers "sketchy" probably to not look available. My sister does that too when she cant find a girl friend to accompany her and cant be bothered with guys approaching her.Now what concerns me is, through my experience, Ive noticed that sometimes if a guy insults another guy, she might just think the other guy is jealous and in turn will think the guy is not so bad after all and might continue to date him.But this was in my time when i was in my dating 20s roughly 15 years ago. I am recently divorced so yes, Im kinda out of the dating game. Anyone can tell me if I should leave her alone for the time being and let her enjoy her good time last night, or should i not wait and start getting in contact with her to kinda rekindle things and steer her mind off this guy.She doesnt know that I know about this date fortunately because her twitter is not private. So i know i have to play it off like i know nothing. Any good advice out there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): Listen mate just cos this guy teased her about this guy doesn't mean shed go out with him. If she does decide to go for him it has nothing to do with her guy friend 'insulting' (as you call it) him.
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