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writes: hey all,I have known I was bi for about years years but have never really told anyone about it. until i met a really cool guy who was bi as well. i later found out that he had "come out" and told his closest mates and even his parents. but my question for you is, should i come out to my mates who i really want to share this with and how do i do it???/ Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, benny2692 +, writes (31 January 2010):
benny2692 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx so much, i guess you are right. ill do it then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): When you have them all gathered up, just tell them! Say you have news and then "Im bisexual!". Im bi too, and I never really threw a big fuzz about it. I mean, straight people dont tell their friends "know what? Im heterosexual!" so why should we? I tell people when it seems fitting, and often point it out if people around me make false assumptions about bisexuals (many think that bisexuals need both a girlfriend and a boyfriend at the same time and can never settle for one). I've decided to not tell my parents, unless I find a girlfriend that I'd want them to meet, but so far I've only been serious with boys/men, so it never came up. But thats just me, if you want to tell everyone then you do that! Why not. Just gather them all up in a bunch and tell them, ortherwise the few who didn't hear it until long after the others might feel left out...
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