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writes:I have a question I have been married for sometime. I have only had sex with 2 guys the first guy I was with was somewhat bigger than my husband and we had trouble. My husband and I were talking about sex and the past and I mention that the first guy and me had trouble doing it, and we never did. He asked me how big was he? I told him I didn't know but he keeps asking. What should I tell him? My husband is not small he is 7 inches long and about 5 inches around but he is feeling insecure.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (21 January 2014):
 I think the solution here is to take the focus off how your husband feels and put it in the middle where BOTH of you exist.
A simple 'I said I don't know now stop asking' would suffice. It's perfectly reasonable. Allowing your irritation to show would remind him that it isn't all about him, that YOU matter too.
His attention is focussed inward. Draw him out by reminding him that you matter too. Be firm about that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2014): While you two are having sex say to him how good and strong his manhood fills reassure him that his size is all the more manhood you need and desire how good he uses it I think this will boost his self confidence and ego up .This is a touchy subject with men especially if the fill that they are lacking in size the one thing that always made me fill good about having sex is that I can make my wife orgasm and fill her needs as well as mine so I think if you can do that in the bed room he will fill better about himself I hope I helped you out
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010): The only thing I can say is the door is open so tell him if he was the first you should be able to remember something about it. Talk about it ask him about his past girls and the difference from you and them. What did the other girls say about his penis. When you talk you must reassure him that from where the average size are that he is well above average, and would be considered very big.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (31 January 2010):
Ladies, the man you are with should always know he is "the biggest you have ever had". Unless he is being an ass and you want to bring his ego crashing down. Really, there is no point in telling a man that you love that his penis size is pathetic compared to your ex. Just tell him what he wants to hear and keep the peace. This is one instance where the truth will not serve you well.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (31 January 2010):
 That is a way above average size for a human man. It's small for a HORSE, and hopefully you wouldn't have sex with a horse, lol. I hear Katherine the great did that.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 January 2010):
For crying out loud, your husband is well over average. Tell him that.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (31 January 2010):
 This is just a sore subject for men. They're always told bigger is better. Whenever you're having sex just talk about how much you love sex with him and how much you love his penis. Don't mention size, just talk about how it's the perfect "fit" for you or something. I wouldn't talk about how much it hurt trying to have to sex with someone bigger, as that sounds like you're saying he's smaller. Just compliment him on that area a lot and how much it gives you pleasure and he should stop feeling insecure.
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