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30-35,
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writes:Ok here is the deal. I got into an online relationship with this most WONDERFUL girl in my life. I went and saw her for about 3 weeks, but I had issues with giving her the right attention. So I decided to make a change. Months later she came to see me. Same thing happened. I was giving her some more attention then I was there, but still same thing. About a month or 2 later she said she doesn't want to do this anymore and I was heartbroken. I had broke her heart she gave me everything, but I basically destroyed it. She decided to delete me from her life. Me still loving her didn't give up on the we had. She would try and talk to me, but I would break down telling her I missed her and stuff. She told me should destroy me she would lead me on and then lemme smash into the ground. This went on for a few months, but I never let go. 5-6 months after are break up we started talking and we got back together. I flew out there to see her and show her I had changed and I did. She seemed happy was glad to see me to be close to me and everything. After I got home it started to slip apart she told me that all the love and passion she used to have wasn't there anymore. We ended up breaking up again. My plan was to move out there and give a shot to a REAL relationship with her, but now she doesn't want to do that anymore. I still plan on moving out there to win her back, but she keeps saying it won't work she just wants to be friends. Shes told me that she still loves me and cares for me, but just doesn't think it will work. My question is how can I show her it will that giving a real relationship a shot won't end in complete failure? I love this girl with my whole heart how can I rekindle those flames of love with in her? Please PLEASE help me.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 January 2010):
You can't, in truth. This isn't the first time it's gone wrong. It's now gone wrong twice. The fact is, it isn't going to work. You'll just get back together and break up again, and again. LDR's so rarely work, and it just doesn't sound like either of you are truly committed. All right, you've tried to change that and well done for you. But she hasn't, and even now isn't interested enough in making it work. Time to let her go, even if you don't want to.
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