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anonymous
writes:I have been dating this guy for two years and its been on the rocks since day one. We developed a relationship from a one night stand.To make matters worse I found out several months later that I was a part of him cheating on his at that time, girlfriend. Very crappy I know but it wasn't my fault because he didn't tell me before anything happened even when I asked if he was dating anyone he said; No I am not.I gave it sometime and asked him out in hopes that it'd work. He moved in we got along he said that he loved me blah, blah, blah. But then problems started to show up and I choose to ignore them when I shouldn't have. Well our relationships went throught honey moon, aniversary and way down moments. I recently sent him to California because he said he could definitly get his old job back and to start setting up for me to come live with him. But the problem really lays there in California, all the girls that sent him naughty pictures, texts, phone calls and emails NOW that he is back on California he has been hanging out with them left and right. But he tells me that he loves me and only me and talks about the future but he has one heck of a silver tongue to cover up what he is doing. Now I'm only giving you the gist of my problems with him. But should I just cut my loses or give him a chance to redeem himself?
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (31 January 2010):
 You should cut your loses, and try to get some of the money you spent on him back.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 January 2010):
He cheated on one girlfriend with you. Now he's cheating on you. Says it all. Don't give this man another moment of your time.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (31 January 2010):
 You should have cut your losses when you found out he was a cheater. Why bother with a guy who has no problems lying to your face?
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (31 January 2010):
 So you start dating a guy. Then when you find out that you are only an affair partner This does not give you a hint at his behavior? when you found out he had a GF did you still keep dating him and not dump him right there? That would be a normal responseCome on it does not take a rocket scientist to know that if someone cheats with you they are more than likely to cheat on you!! lol at any rate, so now you know how his GF felt.find someone with whom you don't base a relationship on a lie.
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