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*rokentrust1
writes:My ex and I broke up over 3 months ago. It all started when he lied to me about being out. After that when I had the gut feeling to check up on him I did. First, I found a message to another girl that asked if he could see her before I got to his work (he is a bartender). Then I found a naked pic of my sister that she sent and he forwarded to his email. I feel like he is a narsicist. He says he still cares for me but needs space. So I go on with life (i am still heartbroken over the breakup, which makes me feel gullable) and he will call or text. Today he asked to see me I went in the hopes of trying to start working things out. We ended up hooking up and afterwards he just acted like I wasn't even there. What makes a person act this way? Why do I keep hanging on? I know he is not right for me? When I called him on it he said it's all my fault for snooping into his privacy. I am not proud of that at all. A relationship is built on trust. But after the lie then finding what I found I think I was justified. So why am I letting him make me feel like the bad guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): You are justified. Don't give him any more chances. He has demonstrated the kind of person he is. By carrying on with him you are effectively saying "its ok to treat me like dirt". As for your sister - I think you could do with some time out from her for a while. She has let you down very badly. Please stand up for yourself - for your own sanity, self esteem and worth.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (30 January 2010):
 Confused??? Why did your sister send him a picture of her naked? Aren't you a little upset with her.
The guy is to understand, he's a player, you cramp his style and he's "Just not into you", the way your into him. He dosen't care, you get in the way of him dating other women.
Google the book "He's just not into you", it'll help you know when and how to walk away.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 January 2010):
I'm begging you to dump this louse. The reason you're made to feel like the bad guy is because he is playing you. A person acts this way when they're a crap person, and he is a crap person. Look in a mirror and smile, you're a good lad. He's just a crap guy.
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