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Should I go for the popular guy or aim for someone more like myself?

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Question - (30 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *GplusMC writes:

Ok Ok people dont freak out but at my school there are populer people and then theres people like me not populer the crazy one with the crazy friends. But you know what I dont care Im proud to be me but thats not why I posted this I have an important question.

I like this boy but he is populer. No matter what you all consider populer at my school there is no way you can ask at a pop if your not populer (pop means populer I know stuiped but thats what there called) anyways I want to ask out this pop boy his. We will call him "James" his so cute funny and smart and I think hes always flirting with me. The other day hes like "why wont you friend me on facebook? Where like best friends You know I like you come on we are like totally alike!" I havent friended him cause Im afraid then we will have nothing left to talk about plus I want to play hard to get. But I dont want to know if I should friend him I want to know if I should ask him out. I feel like the people around us are from 2 diffrent places but where meant to be! Ughhhh I hate this oh by the way he lives in my nieghberhood just a little tip. So should i ask him out even though hes a Pop or should I give up and shoot for someone whos "crazy" like me.

Sorry this is so long but I had to say everything also I know I have spelling issues but i dont care Im crazy rember so help plez. Also one more thing he makes fun of my ex not in a really mean way just in a playfull way.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2010):

Stop playing too hard to get. Accept him as a friend. He likes you, and he's asked to be your friend, and he's asked again. He likes you. So accept him as a friend, talk to him some more, then ask him out. Yes, ask him out! :). Good luck.

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