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writes:I met this boy on msn through one of my friends and I think he is absoloutely amazing. We've met up a couple of times and I swear I have fallen in love. It seems silly that someone could actually fall in love with someone i've only known for about 2 weeks but I really have, i'd do anything for him and I love him unconditionally. It's just, I don't feel good enough for him and I don't think i'm pretty or hot or attractive in any way. He has loads of other prettier, skinnier female friends, I don't get why he likes me. I find myself making excuses not to see him because i'm embarressed and hate the way I look. How can I feel more confident about myself and learn to accept the way I am?
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reader, Neanthia  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 I'm going to sound like a record broken beyond repair but I'll repeat what Yarou and Danii-N-Dale said. Looks don't always matter. If he likes you for who you are then that's great but if doesn't he's missing out on a wonderful person. Don't feel pressured into changing who you are for ANYBODY!! Got that, don't change for anybody! You are you and that in itself is amazing. Be content. Get to know this guy better and see what happens. Don't try to avoid him because you think you're not good enough. Show him that you're happy with you and he will respect you and maybe like you too.
Hope things work out for you! :)
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reader, Danii-N-Dale +, writes (9 April 2010):
 If he didnt like youu, he wouldnt hang out with youu, weather you was totally ugly or completly beautiful he stil is meeting up with you :)And like Yarou said Looks dont matter because your personality will take care of your looks, dont worry hun just carry on being cool with this guy youu like, maybe let things progress a little more and then tell him how youu feel and maybe he will feel the same for youu :)Good Luck And I Hopee This HelpsDaniielle x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question:) Thanks x
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reader, Yarou  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 A guy has to like you the way you are and if not its his loss
you should never care a LOT about your looks because looks doesnt always matter.
if he says he likes you maybe he means it, but stay on your guards because you barely know him,and who knows what he can be up to .
my friend does this thing every time and always gets hit in the end.....
don't do the same mistake as her, this is an advice.
good luck xo
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