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writes:hi umm i need help this boy wants to finger mii weve recently dated nd recently brokeup...now he wants to finger mii but im reallly scared can u guys/girls help mii Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): hun you are WAY too young to be doing things like that. so do your self a favor respect your body, dignity, etc....over all jut have self respect. I did that when i was younger and trust me it not all cracked up to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): Firstly,
If you don't want to do it don't do it, show some self respect. It can be a little scary, and doing sexual things can be quite emotional, which is why you should wait for someone you are completely inlove with.
Secondly,
Maybe your too young to be doing anything sexual, you seem quite young as you can't spell properly
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reader, Neanthia +, writes (10 April 2010):
 No one can help you but yourself in this situation because YOU have to draw the line. Where that line is drawn is up to you. Personally I suggest you draw it here. You didn't exactly say much but from what you did sounds to me like this guy is a playboy. Do you love him? Does he love you? Are you willing to degrade yourself for someone who will just throw you away after he gets what he wants (I don't know if he will but I'm pretty sure most of the guys I know would if they didn't love the girl) Boys are jerks. If you let him do this give it a week and chances are you'll be labeled a whore and a slut. Guys can make you think they're mature enough to love you, but you know they're not when they turn around acting like pervs. Hope this helps, but seriously you need to respect yourself and your body more, you only get one.
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 why you wanna let him do that anyway? and why you are worrying much about what he wanna do to you? why you dont wanna worry what is going to happen to you? first of all think of your self. respect your self so in the future man wil respect you too.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 He's just a boy, he's not your boyfriend. He wants to finger you, but your not in a relationship... He could do this to you and then go do it to someone else.. your just a girl, your not his girlfriend..
Very bad idea.. wait until you find a boyfriend to love and find someone who loves you just as much. Do you really want to be this guy's experiment.. I don't hear anything about love, just some guy wants to get into your knickers.. He'll probably tell the whole school about it if you let him.
Save sexual things for when you are loved by some boy that is kind and nice.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 April 2010):
 Why did you break up in the first place? It sounds like a terrible idea to let a guy do something like if you're scared. I think I would say, "thanks, but no thanks. Byeeeee" to him if I were you. (By the way, it's spelled "me" not "mii") Don't get pushed around, don't be forced into doing something you don't want, be strong, be sure of yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): You shouldnt do it. Once you give him a little bit he will just want more and more. Wait to do sexual stuff with some one who loves you and that you love, it will be more special and less scary. Becuase you will probly regret it in the future. My bestfreind did and they dint last long. Now shes in love with a wonderfull guy and wishes she would of waited and did it with him instead. Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 April 2010):
You're broken up for a start, and the fact that you're asking this is perhaps an indication that you're not ready yet. Don't just let this guy use you. You deserve better than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): If you guys are still broken up, dont do it. Guys are assholes, especially at your age. Getting fingered isnt scary at all, just make sure you are clean and primped. But again, if he is not your boyfriend, he shouldnt have the privilege of messing around with you. Its only gonna hurt your self esteem.
*when trying new things, make sure its a guy you trust and who is committed to you. it will be more comfortable for you that way and you wont regret anything later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): well i think that u should but its all up to you really. like if u have feelings for him and stuff then yh go for it but if u think its just a one off thing and he doesnt even have feelings for you then dont. i peronally think that if u are in a relationship with this guy then yh do it but i see ur not so its really up to you xx
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