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writes:hi. ive liked this guy for a really long time, but within a couple of weeks of telling my bestfriend, she says she likes him too. Then, my bestfriend got his email and started talking to him alot on msn. she made us both promise that we would never go out with him if he asked us, as it wasnt fair on each other. The next day, she called me and said that he had asked her out, and she was asking ME what to say. So i tried my best to be nice (although it was killing me inside). i really wanted to say something back to her,, but i didnt want to risk our friendship. Shes going out with him now, and has been for at least 2 months, but i found out a couple of weeks ago that she has been sending him texts about me saying i want to kiss him, and she even told him i really like him! She has been asking me to go out more on satudays with her, and i told my other bestfriend about all of this, and we are both starting to think shes just using me as an excuse to get to him. She has also been talking about him alot lately, and a couple of my friends have been telling her to stop dangling him in front of me, but she justs goes, 'oh,she doesnt mind' and then carries on before i have the chance to say anything. My other bestfriend also thinks shes doesnt even fancy him, as she does things to make other people jealous quite alot. I just cant stand it any more, and its really getting me down. what should i do?!
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Ask him out. She's obviously not letting your friendship stop her so don't worry about it. If you like him, ask him out.
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reader, Danii-N-Dale +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Im gunna say exactly what i think here, she seems a complete Bitch! She doesnt seem like A friend to me hun, It definatly seems as if shes using youu and definatky showing off that shes got him and youu havent, to be honest i would of confronted her by now and probably hit her. If you both made a promise to say no if he asked you out, she should of kept to it and to say she is 'dangling' him infront of you that would make me very angry like i asume you are, so if i was youu i would go tell her how youu feel and have it out im not saying argue or be violent towards her but she needs putting in her place and being told straight :\ Daniielle x
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