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writes:MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one.What's going on people?Well I found out my girlfriend still texts a guy who she liked and was about to date while we were broken up for a month. We been together 2 years. Yesterday while she was at her internship, I texted her and she did not text me back. So I went on facebook because she works on the computer and she sometimes talks to me on there at work and I saw that she put up like 33 photos of her vacation pictures. I thought she might have been busy so I called her an hour later and asked her if everything was okay she said yeah she was just busy and she cannot be texting at her internship that day because it was busy. So I'm like okay so how'd you put all those pictures on facebook? And she was like I work on the computer so I can do it quickly unlike texting on my phone. I kind of believed her but I had a gut feeling something was not right. I'm not the controlling type of bf either, but I just deep down felt as if something did not add up. So since we share a phone plan I checked to see what was going on. And I found out that she was texting the guy that liked her for about 3-4 hours. Even when she told me she was busy at work and wasn't able to text me back because she was so busy she was texting him. When we got back together she told me she stopped talking to him. But now I find out that she still texts him..alot..how should I take this? What should I do?Second part:I recently found out my girlfriend was texting another guy for quite some time. That brings me to the question..What constitutes cheating when it pertains to the cell phone? How many texts from the guy per day would constitute cheating? How long of a phone call would constitute cheating? Or should I be suspicious?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): im only 16 but i feel this way if u tell her that u have a problem with her texting him every day or tell her u dont feel right with her textin at all. If she catch a attitue or something then she has some kind of feelings for that person but idk it could be her close friend but whatever it is they share a bond :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Ask her about it. If she doesnt come clean then you should cut her loose, and make sure she's also off your plan.
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (9 April 2010):
 First off, do those men even know she's taken?! They have to know that she's off limit, and even if they're simple innocent conversations, it's not okay for them to be taking her time away from you. I can see why you've become suspicious.
For you finding out on your own, then she could be hiding something. The other scenario could be is she doesn't want you to get *jealous* and is sparing an argument. But either way, talk to her about it before it gets too serious and starts ignoring you all together.
Good luck to you!
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reader, indianna  +, writes (9 April 2010):
talk to your girlfriend about it. there are clearly trust issues in your relationship that needs addressing. if you both can't trust eachother completely then the relationship won't last. simple as.
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