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*tellaforstar
writes: Ok this one is mostly for the guys..I was wondering if watching people in porn (i don't just mean pornstars but "amateurs" too) give oral is a good place to pick up tips. What do you think? Would you encourage your gf to copy some of the more porn style techniques if she was ok with doing it?
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reader, LoveGirl +, writes (11 April 2010):
Research only ( ha ha ha) Everything in moderation, stellaforstar, everything in moderation!
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reader, stellaforstar +, writes (10 April 2010):
stellaforstar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help everyone. We have been together for over a year now and i have no problem giving him an orgasm through oral and am not shy. I know what he likes but i would say that the technical things like speed, depth (lol) and rhythm i would like to have a look and see how the pro's do it. Thanks for opinions, also, glad to see that other girls consider this acceptable! Thank you all =) off to watch a lot of porn... for research purposes of course!
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reader, LoveGirl +, writes (10 April 2010):
Let me also add, no teeth ( you read my earlier comments). Grooming - if your man can groom a bit then even better. And do not feel pressurised to swallow. If you watch closely you will see some of those women detest that gunk. They either are content with it on their faces, breasts etc. So take the good from porn and leave the tasteless ones. Also a few moths ago a woman wrote in about her bj technique, she describes in detail what she does and I know she was doing her job perfectly. So if the other aunts here remember that post please link it here. I think we can all do with a bit of refresher training (lol)
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reader, LoveGirl +, writes (9 April 2010):
Yep learning from pornsites will also teach you not to use your teeth. I have never seen a porn babe with braces(lol). No nip there. I know the guys are now saying ouch! I repeat NO TEETH!!!
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reader, LarryGalapagos +, writes (9 April 2010):
Yes, absolutely. The girls in adult films do give great blowjobs. If you want to give your boyfriend great blowjobs and not boring ones, I would certainly recommend picking up tips from xxx films.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (9 April 2010):
Porn will help, but each man is different and each likes different things. You can get some pointers from porn but your boyfriend will have to tell you what he likes.
Word of advice: Use your hands while giving a blowjob. A lot of women don't know that you need to use your hands as well as your mouth.
Good luck!
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (9 April 2010):
Yes! I mean, what better place to learn maths than in a maths class?
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reader, Myau +, writes (9 April 2010):
Practice with your bf would be better, just ask him what he likes and go from there, its not rocket science
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): hey there,
wen me and my boyfriend started going out i had never given a bj in my life so he told me that watching porn was a good idea to get some tips. at first it took me a while to stasrt looking at porn just for the bj tips but some that ive learnt have come from them sort of sites but some have come from just experimenting and seeing wot he likes best. of course with encouragement from him... i hope i hepled a little xx
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