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writes:She said "Ur Crazy"I said "Crazy about you"She said "You are mistaken"I said "LOl. It's true. I am"The she said, "Oops your mistaken again."I said "Lol. Ok I am MISTAKEN!"She said, "I know. It's okay."I was trying to make the situation light, but really it was like a stab in the old heart. Haha. Does this mean she isn't into me at all? I've never really been rejected. I've only had one real relationship and that was a couple years ago with a man. She's amazing to me. I've been in love with her for a year and the first time I dropped my heart she never responded, and I dropped our friendship which broke both of our hearts. We restored it and my love for her is stronger. Our friendship is stronger. I want to be with her not physically but completely emotionally, mentally, I want to be her everything. I want to make her happy. 'just wish I wasn't a complete scaredy cat. Did she just reject me? Cause if she did then I really need to move on. Female on Female is not easy.
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reader, cnith +, writes (9 April 2010):
 I think I need more than what you gave me to make any kind of response.
I mean you're mistaken that you're crazy about her? Um... OK... how does she know that?
No... there's something more to this puzzle and you didn't give it to us.
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reader, pipsta  +, writes (9 April 2010):
From what ws said, I believe, unfortunately for you, yes, she did just reject you.
She says 'you are mistaken' in the sense that she is not into other girls, and you are mistaken in thinking there is something more than a good friendship there.
It sucks I know, but don't push the issue with her, if she feels nothing, don't pursue it, because you might lose the friendship.
Although if the only reason you stay friends, is because you feel something more for her, its not fair on either of you.
Good luck hun, don't let this experience bring you down, there are plenty of great 'possible partners' out there, don't get too hung-up on one.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (9 April 2010):
 If you are prepared to move on, then just be honest with her. Don't play games, and just confront her.
"I really like you, is there a chance we could be together romantically? If not, that is ok.... you are and will always be my good friend."
Try something like that.
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