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writes:This may seem like a really stupid scenerio but here goes.... This has been going on for months.Im in a long distance relationship for several years. I am a single mom and I lost my job back in december of 09. I have been struggling for months and was getting a big tax refund check, but due to the tax brain screw up my refund was delayed and all I have heard from the banks and the IRS is " it will be mailed tomorrow" for almost THREE months now. So not having alot of money prohibits me from seeing my fiancee so much and also prohibits me from moving there as I had planned until this check comes in. I have lost my home and had to move in with me dad over all this and am struggling to pay my bills and take care of my kids. The problem: NON stop fussing and complaining from my fiancee. I just talked with him after my check didnt arrive , once again as promised by the IRS... and basically the response was " did your check come in ? it was supposed to be here today ... thats what you say all the time... Why arent you doing anythign about this? once again our relationship is put on hold over this money that is apparently never coming...I told him they said it would be here this week.. then he went off again .. laughing histerically and telling me if I cant keep my word then he cant trust me. I talk with the IRS everyday , and relay exactly what they tell me to my fiancee. WHY is he being so hard on me?? he acts like its my fault! He keeps telling me " my refund came in and millions of other peoples did too" Well NO DUH , HE and MILLIONS of other people were not affected by Tax Brains idiotic mistake. Im so sick of hearing him throw this on me when Im doing ALL I canThoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): He's a lawyer with a six figure salary. He's not after the money. He did apologize for his behavior. He admitted he was frustrated and said he was wrong. Its not just this situatio where he acts this was. This is his typical response to pretty much anything
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 April 2010):
Dump him. He's after the money. That's all.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 My thought is that he's waaay too interested in your getting money. Sound like a red flag.
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