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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend recently started taking Cialis, and I have no idea why. He gets erections fine and is only 33 years old. We have been together for a while, and he's never had problems getting or maintaining erections. I have always been a very open partner, and we had a very great sex life. Lately, we've been having sex less often, maybe once a week. (Usually it was about five times a week) It kills my self confidence to see that every time we have sex, he feels he has to take a pill first. We will be in bed, and he will have an erection, but will roll over and not act on it. He watches porn a lot, always has, and it feels like that has been a substitute for our declining sex life. He doesn't take a cialis to masturbate.I've asked him why he takes them. (It's $200 for 10 pills bc his insurance doesn't cover it) He claims so he can pleasure me better... but I never have once complained about our sex life.Can someone help me to see what exactly is going on with him?
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (11 April 2010):
His confidence is gone some how or other that is what you need to get to the botom off. Is he having sex with someone else as it is a sea change from 5 to 1, besides at your respected ages you should be at it often, if my memory serves me correctly, it is such a long time?
Have a long talk with him and tell him what you have told us or just try and show him your post!
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reader, TimmD +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Some guys do feel it makes them better in bed and last longer. Just because he's taking it doesn't mean he's not turned on by you. As far as not taking it while masturbating... that would just be a waste and defeat the purpose of masturbating.From what you told me, I wouldn't think that he's not turned on by you. Some guys just do that and eventually they get kind of addicted. They think they won't be as good without it. And hey... if he didn't care about you then he wouldn't care about sex with you and therefore wouldn't be taking it. ;-)
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