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writes:My boyfriend is being extremely distant. I'm not sure if it's because he is stressed about being in school full time and working full time. Or if it is because he is rethinking 'us'. We have been together 2 years, why can't he talk to me about how he is feeling? When I am down he practically begs me to tell him what is going on, and that 'we are in this together'. But when the roles are reversed this doesnt apply to him. I feel hurt by his actions or lack thereof. Please, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question*whole week
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe told me he wanted to be alone for the whole, he has been busy and stressed and that sometimes I only make it worse that is why he hasn't talked to me.
I don't know how, though. I don't put him down or harp on him; I always tell him he should try his best. I feel like if we can't be open together, then why are we even together. Is this normal? Have I done something wrong?
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reader, Myau  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Tell him that it hurts you when he doesnt share whats ong on in his head.
I have to warn you that guys are bread to hide their emotions and I personally have always found by showing my vulnribility, that I loose the respect of the girl.
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