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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend hasn't called me this week; I would call him, but he works 2nd shift and can only talk on his breaks. I talked to him Wednesday at school, but he hasn't called. I figure he's either in one of his depressed moods, or he's getting tired of me because he is back in school and has made a new female friend and would rather spend his breaks talking to her. I usually spend the weekends at his house and I have a key to his house and want to surprise him with dinner tomorrow night, but if I don't get a call from him, should I?Should I also mention he has been deleting all his calls and texts lately. It's probably because I have been known to look through his phone, but he never deleted them all the time. Maybe I'm just insecure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe just texted me and told me he basically had an anxiety attack in one of his classes today, but said he was fine. So I asked him if he was overstressed and if this was the reason he hasn't talked to me, and he said he just had a lot on his mind, that it is something he needs to deal with internally.
I told him we should be able to turn to one another for support and comfort when we are feeling down, and that this is healthy. He then texted me "I'm sorry I worried you, hope you have a goodnight. I'm staying over tonight, but I'm not sure how long. Until I'm tired I guess."
What does this mean? I feel like we have a lot to talk about but I'm afraid he won't share with me how he is feeling. When I am down, he practically begs me to tell him because "we are in this together, but when it comes to what is bothering him, he tells me not to worry about it.
What should I do?
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