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writes:Ok well, me and this boy were dating in february and we really liked eachother but then out of no where he broke up with me. We still talked 24/7. We even talked on the phone the night of the breakup. We just still cant get enough of eachother but he kept saying he needed to think and i respect that 100%a few days ago i guess he finally got his crap together and said we should get back together and i agreed. if we never had broken up in the first place we prolly would have done some stuff thats a little more than kissing but since we just started dating again we kinda need to rebuild our relationship from the beginning but aparently he doesnt think so.The day after we got back together we were in my basement kissing, just basic and he was.... going up my dress and i dont think our relation ship is ready for that, weve only been together a few days...Am i wrong? is it different because we have dated before? let the record show when we dated before the only vthing we had done was kissed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): You are not wrong at all. Take things slow. If you are not comfortable with doing something, then don't do it. At your age, kissing is enough. Dont let him pressure you. Dont put yourself in a position where things may get uncomfortable. Talk to him now about how you are feeling and if he doesnt respect your wishes, then you need to just be friends. He should respect you.
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reader, Danii-N-Dale  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Youu are certainly not wrong hun, your right in fact you both need to be ready in a relationship for it to be ok to do more.
You need to tell him as thats the only way he can know, and it may actually feel difficult to tell him but its better to do that then do something you regret sweetie :)
Good Luck Xx
Daniielle x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): this isnt really an answer.... im the person who wrote this but i have another question to add.... when do i tell him this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Everyone moves at their own pace. If you are not ready for the next step then you just aren't. You are not obligated to go any farther then you want to go, and you need to tell him that. Tell him you want to take it slow, and really mean it. Do not let him think you want to go and hop on to the next step just because he wants to move fast.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 You not wrong. That cannot start until you are ready. Or yuo will regret it.
Just tell him straight that you arnt ready
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