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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am still very close to my ex girlfriend.We finished for reasons that were nothing to do with how we felt for each other. I know I definitely still like her and for a while she said we could date again then she said she only cared for me as a friend. We can talk every day by texting or facebook, or on msn, and it can be for hours and hours even until the early hours of the morning. She initiates contact nearly as much as i do... well maybe about 60/40I wish I didn't feel so much for her... very confused...Any thoughts???
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reader, empop +, writes (11 April 2010):
If she said she only cared for you as a friend, then almost certainly not.
The fact that you're talking all the time only means that you've fallen into the "friend" zone - she likes having someone to confide in, but she no longer feels romantically interested in you.
I think it would be best for you if you made a clean break from her for a while - it will be miserable at first, but build yourself up a bit and get a bit more independent. I've remained friends with ex boyfriends, like, forever but we always needed a period apart after our breakup.
In the meantime, start taking up your own hobbies and interests and meeting new people - it's important to get over your ex girlfriend or you risk alienating other awesome girls you may actually have a good relationship with.
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