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writes:Two years ago I met a foreign guy in place I used to work at. We weren't attracted to each other ( and neither disliked each other). He was in a relationship back then and we just talked a bit for a couple of days until he left work to go back to his country. We didn't keep in touch, but he kept in touch with a girl who works with us (a mutual friend of ours)2 years later (now) this mutual friend of ours and me decided to visit his country and she called him to see if he's willing to meet up with us. We met up with him and his friend last week and we spent almost all the week with them. He drove us round, took us to his home, introduced us to his family and was really nice to us....on our last night he told me I look beautiful and he was dancing with me close in the club but we didn't go any further. Well, I was surprised I was falling for him and I wasn't sure what to do so I didn't tell/show him that I like him more than a friend.Now I'm back to my home and I texted him to let him know we've arrived safely. He replied that he's missing me and that he hopes to meet me up again. I replied that I also hope to meet up with him again some time soon. What should I do? I know it won't be easy to keep in touch with him as he's not online often. Also, now I'll be starting a cabin crew job for the next 3 years, which means that I'll be on the move all the time and he knows this. Should I let this whole thing go? since our situation is a bit complicated. or tell him how I feel anyway?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): I really like him but I don't know if it's worth trying since I'm not sure if he feels the same way towards me...I'm afraid I might come across as being too serious from the start since we don't know each other very well. but anyway thanks for answering.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Let this whole thing go. It does not sem that either you or the foreign guy are so smitten to put into this all the energy it would take, what with the distance etc. Then again, you are going away 3 years with acabin crew job- it sounds promising :) plenty of chances to meet interesting new pwople.
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