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writes:My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and I don't know what to do because he asked me to forgive him and he said that he won't do this anymore.Should I trust him? Are men worth of trust?
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reader, BlueBag  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Of course some men are trust worthy as are some women. However, this guy is not! Cheating on you period should be your cue to leave but cheating on you with your bestfriend is beyond forgiveness in my opinion. You're too young to be putting up with this behaviour, its not like you're married and have kids. Get out while you can and find someone who will respect you. Not all men cheat! Find a good man. Good luck!
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reader, Isa123  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 This happened to me too. Ex left me for my best friend. He cheated on me twice in our relationship.How was he to you during your relationship? Are you seriously willing to forgive him? If so, proceed. with. caution!Don't give him a free start. Really show him that he has to prove you his love; that he wants to get together with you. If you forgive him easily he may find you easy to cheat on and do it again.Good luck sweetie.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Your boyfriend is probably not sorry that he cheated, he's sorry that he got caught. A man who cheated with your friend has absolutely no respect for you or the boundaries of your relationship. Proceed with caution.
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Are men trust worthy? That depends on the man and,with that in mind,the only person who can decide whether what he is saying is heart-felt or just an illusion he's creating to regain your favour is you. What type of person is he? If you can answer that, it shouldn't be too hard to reach an accurate decision. Just remember not too cloud your own judgement; its easy for us to fool ourselves into believing white is black and wrong is right when it suits our desires.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Words are not cast in stones.
It is only words, he needs to prove to you first before you can trust him.
If you love him and cannot live without him , you need to forgive him because nobody is perfect and he made a mistake.
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