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writes:What do you do when u tell the guy u like how u feel about him and he says nothing?!I sent the guy I've been dating for 3 months a text after staying over at his for a couple of days that I had a really nice time with him and I really wanna make it work between us and he makes me really happy and I haven't heard anything back for 2 days now...He told me he really likes me and I make him very happy, he's going back to uni on Monday so is he just busy?Should I contact him again?I don't wanna look desperate!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): That's a tough one without knowing more background. Delivering that through text is gernerally not a good way to handle it for the 1st time. To add to it he's leaving Mon....how far away is his school? He may like you as well, but starting a relationship under these circumstances are very hard. Just wait and see if he calls. If not and you are really into him call him Sunday afternoon. If he's going to be going away for a long time just tell him you would like to see him as a friend that noight before he leaves the next day. Do not go with a hidden agenda. Go to have fun. If he likes you he will let you know when you see him because of the text. If he doesn't mention it just carry on having a fun night with a friend. He may like you but want to have fun a bit in college. If that's it let him do it and date other guys.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Hard to say really, there are alot of reasons that he hasnt called you back.
My mobile phone (cell phone) stopped working for 3 days for no reason atall and my family thought I was mad at them.
If he leads a rather hectic life then he may not have had time.
I would advise a follow up call to see where he is at, 2 days is a long time to wait
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reader, cinnamon  +, writes (9 April 2010):
It really doesn't sound like he all that interested. I know it is really tough to put your emotions out there for him and no response is hard on the heart...but the next move is his. Don't contact him again until you hear from him. You are a secure and strong woman; with lots of options. Don't wait on him.
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