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*oni1983
writes:i have bn with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now and since the start it just seemed doomed!! i recently found out he woz payin to watch girls pleasure themselves on the net, something he has bn doin with previous gfs but they just never found out!! then i had it out with him and he closed the account etc..iv recently found he has opened more accounts on other adult sites....not only this he doesnt tell people he has a gf, just that he is seein a girl and a few on the side..he is with me most of the time so i no he isnt seein any1 else but why say it?? we are supposed to be goin away nxt month all payed for holiday but i dont no if its worth it to stay with him..im so confused as i really like him and most of the time he treats me well but others he is a control freak who constantly accuses me of cheatin...which i havent..
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reader, Toni1983 +, writes (10 April 2010):
Toni1983 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for ur answers, i no ur right...now iv just gotta find the moment and courage to tell him its over.. will be sad though as i do like him alot :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): he's a complete sleaze who really doesn't deserve you and frankly, if he's doing all that, really doesn't love you! I would go on the holiday, have fun - as you've paid for it, get tanned, relax, party and hopefully you will realise there's more 2 life than worrying over a complete loser...move on, find the 'one' - this guy certainly isn't going to make you happy in the long run. Good luck! You're young! Live life, move on and go find someone better!! :-)
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 A control freak who accuses you of cheating? And one who spends money to watch live girls on porn video feeds? And hidden accounts on adult sites? Um, he sounds like a dreadful boyfriend. Are you sure you want more of this kind of control and doubt? Because right now, the relationship should be in the honeymoon period.
I personally would take a pass on the holiday even if it had been paid for. I think the fact he's accusing you of cheating might indicate a guilty conscience in this case. Okay, I'll just say it. He sounds like a sleazeball. You can do better than this, I'm sure.
Have you gone away on holiday before? Because it can be really stressful on a couple in the best of situations and I think you're already stretched thin here. Perhaps you should find out if the money for the trip can be recovered. If not, I'd write it off as a painful lesson.
Good luck to you in your decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): He is probably cheating himself, and is trying to turn it on you. So my advice is to STOP DROP AND ROLL!STOP what you are doingDROP himROLL on and find a new man
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