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female
age
30-35,
*lorathehobbit
writes:Do teenagers sexuality usually fluctuate? I'm 16 and up until about a year ago I have always considered myself straight. I first liked a guy when I was about 4 years old, and I never really had a time in my life where I didnt like a guy. And I really had strong feelings for guys, like, If it wasnt for my age I would say I have been in love at least twice before.So, about a year ago I started to kind of go off boys, and it really freaked me out. I tried to get a boyfriend before I noticed I was going off them and when I got one I was sort of disapointed. I go to an all girls school, and Ive started to feel like I'd rather be with my friends instead of guys. I kind of romanticise them. I still like guys but I could never imagine myself having real feelings for one.I've considered that maybe Im expecting too much from boys, which is probably how this started. I suppose what my question is is: Am I gay or does this kind of sexual confusion happen to others?Sorry about the length (: Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Teenagers like myself? Yes we aren't really sure about anything and I really think we know until we are like 25, but hey even older people change their minds and get confused about what they like. I like men and women and it took me forever to realize that. Everyone finds themselves at different ages.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): this things do happen at thjis age.
don't be too fast to rate yourself as lesbian.it is too natural to romantise with ur gf at this age.
ur past experience is not good as u know urself ur expectation were high.
so chill.
try another1 and this don't tag him ur bf rather jst be friend and watch ur feeling.
and be free to tell him ur expectation.
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