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writes:dear cupid, i need your help.so this guy requested me on myspace and i never add people unless i know them. he knew me from high school and also knows my brother so i added him. i started to put sad statuses on my myspace(because of my boyfriend and meant for him to see them they were in no way directed for attention from anyone else) he commented on probably three of them over about two weeks so i finally messaged him and said thank you. we talked a little through myspace but i really didnt think anything of it. ( during this time my boyfriend and i have broken up) i broke my phone and put a bulletin out asking for everyones number for my new phone and he messaged me and asked for my number. i dont know why but i gave it to him. i never do that kind of thing. weve been texting for about three weeks and were supposed to hang out tonight and hes really sweet and i enjoy talking to him just through text but ive never even met him so i guess i cant really say. he doesnt seem to be a jerk but he has mentioned a dirty thing or two. this is an akward situation and im nervous about tonight can anyone give me some advice on what his intentions are or anything?
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (16 October 2009):
 Well do what you want...but remember
when you post those statuses over on Myspace everyone else can see them on your friends list. Basically you started unneeded drama by doing it, so of course anyone that has a sense of wanting to get into your pants is gonna jump.
I call them "Fawn Fests" over there., You ever notice one of those stupid fake models posts something over there like "I feel awful" and the next thing you know 80 guys are posting either "Feel better baby" or posting a Mafia wars add? lol
You just have to be careeful when you are posting your status and mood and not live your relationship through a social site.
as for meeting this guy, I think you should be ok, if you are in a public place, and maybe if you invited some of your friends to come along. See how this guy reacts in a group situation first. If he gets all upset, then you will be able to tell he just wanted to "hit it and quit it".
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
Well if he's said a dirty thing or two, be careful. He might just be flirting, but he might also be showing his true colours. My advice is to go and out and enjoy yourself, but really get to know him well before you do anything else. Good luck.
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