A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My guy friend, his cousin and I were on the bus. His cousin who’s my best friend asked him if he was my stalker because I ran into him all the time this week. He just smiled and said no like he was admitting it. Today I said hi stalker and he said no I’m not a stalker I just saw you going to English class, and presenting in English class later that day, and then he saw me talking to the principle and looked over while I was talking. Then he said he looked into my English class and saw who was teaching. He was red and trying to explain but in a nervous way. He always whispers stuff to me while his cousins around and he always trys to get my attention or make me laugh. Do you think I have a problem? He always laughs when I call him my stalker
View related questions:
best friend, cousin Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys! I should get my friend to stop calling him my stalker. He doesn't seem to mind it but you never know. He is 16 yrs.old but I've been waiting forever to tell him how I feel and I hoped he felt the same.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): It sounds like the poor guy is an admirer.Look sweetie.If he lived 500 miles away and wasnt a personal friend of yours and in the same school as you then maybe you wouldnt sound so paranoid.Cut him some slack or he wont be your friend much longer.Accusing someone of being a stalker is not nice.Unless of course they are one but i think this guys just young,hormonal and not yet experienced enough to pick up on the little tell tale signs that some women can be trouble.Having said that i look at your age.I think you may just be a bit immature which at 16 i suppose you are entittled to be.Look up stalker on Wikipedia hun.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): Hope that's all cleared up. Next time you see him, you should apologise for calling him a stalker.
It sounds as if he likes you, for sure. It even sounds as if you might like him. If you like him, try and let him know. If not, let him down nicely. Boys are human, and they have feelings.
...............................
A
female
reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (16 October 2009):
 I agree with CaringGuy, sounds like he just likes you. It doesn't sound like he's got an obsession or is actually stalking you. But, keep your eye open just in case. Better safe than sorry!
...............................
A
female
reader, kitty_3 +, writes (16 October 2009):
 i agree with the answer below. it's a crush. don't worry about it! just enjoy :)
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Basically,I just think he likes you and is too shy to admit it.
...............................
A
male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
I think it's more likely he fancies you than is completely obsessed.
...............................
|
