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writes:i have a really big problem. i really like this guy that i met 3 months ago he said he has been in very bad relationships and he dont want a girlfriend to be commited to. but the only problem there is i have also been in very bad commited relationships and i still want to commit everything i have to him. he says he likes me but i want to hear more. i want to hear him say he wants to be with me and me only me and i cant seem to get him to say that. im confused and i want to find out quick if im just wasting my time on this guy or if i should hold on a little longer to see if he says what i really want him to say. i want this guy to fall in love with me but everything i try i always get the same answer so tell me cupid is there any way you can help me out in this crazy situation i am in. how to i get him to say i want you to be my girlfriend and how do i get him to fall in love with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): You are in a huge club. There is probably no way to tell whether he is going to change or not. I have a friend who's guy said that he didn't want committment and changed his mind in a few months. Me, I have been waiting for a proposal for a couple of years now. the more time you put into it the harder it is to give up and the more you say, just a little longer......Only you can make the decision for yourself...hey, there is TONS of advice on the internet on how to get a guy to want to stay with you, it can't hurt, if you don't want to give up.
Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
You can't. And to try and force him will drive him away. So now the question is can you handle being nothing more than a mistress, or would you prefer to move on? 3 months is (in my opinion) enough time to at least call someone a boyfriend or girlfriend. If he won't commit, don't be someone he just uses.
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